We recently took a day off from our regular routines to spend it focused on each other (you can read about that here) which involved cracking open the sex toy vault to liberate our favorite forms of entertainment. It occurred to us that we really have a significant collection of stuff… some of which we have written about (or reviewed) but much of which we have never mentioned here.
There is so much crap on the market! We think we have sorted through enough lousy products to get both an appreciation for, and ability to identify, the good stuff. We have a preference for products which enhance the sex we already have, as opposed to items intended for solo play.
Without writing up lengthy reviews, we’d like to share some suggestions with you. We own every item on the following list and have included each here as a personal recommendation… our seal of sexy approval emblazoned on each one. Some are on the expensive side but would make excellent gifts! If this list is well received we have plenty more to share!
(We should disclose that some of these items we sell in our store, but many we do not. While we would not be disappointed if you chose to purchase from us, our real intent here is to share… whether we benefit from the recommendation or not. Enjoy!)
Revel Body – A discreet, quiet clit vibrator for her unlike any product on the market. It’s cordless, rechargeable, water proof (think bath time), not phallic, and delivers a truly impressive vibration range. We reviewed this product and loved it! It’s a high end toy, as a gift you could not go wrong with Revel Body.
Eroscillator - An all time favorite which sits permanently bedside on Jane’s night stand for easy access. Jane retired every other external vibrator in her collection at the time the day she first tried her Eroscillator. She shared her impressions with a review and you can find one here.
Magic Wand - A real rumbler which is too powerful for Jane’s clit but has won our love for its ability to transfer vibration deep into a body during sex. Dick has also figured out how to strap it to his dick with a masturbation sleeve… that’s an experience to behold. Pick one up easily here or here.
Massage Table – An excellent investment for each other! We don’t recall where ours came from, likely Amazon.com. There are some really cheap ones on the market so buyer beware. Ours was probably in the $150 range and is worth every penny!
Red Hot Touch - Jaiya has a series of well produced and very sexy instructional DVD’s in her Red Hot Touch series focused on the sensuality of touch. We have many, because she generously gifted them to us, but are particularly fond of the genital massage editions included in the set.
Massage Candle – Keeps warm oil at the ready on romantic, candle lit nights. The quality of oil in the JimmyJane Afterglow Massage Candle is excellent and we loved ours (review). You can also find a variety of similar candles in our store.
Lamb Skin Condoms – For birth control (not STI prevention), these condoms are unmatched. Temperature transfer is key to sensation and these do it like skin, sex feels just like going bareback. Order them discreetly from our store or pick some up at your local Walgreen’s.
Liquid Silk – Our search for the perfect sex lube stopped at Liquid Silk. It’s light, water based, super slick, and does not leave you feeling sticky. We have two bottles, one on each night stand so it’s always within reach. You can reach some here or here.
Cock Rings - If you follow this blog, you have likely already read about Dick’s love for these stainless steel (and now aluminum) cock rings. He has reviewed a couple too. Pick one (or more) up with confidence from Gear Essentials.
Pure Plugs – We LOVE stainless steel toys and these plugs from njoy (3 sizes) are a real treat. Elegantly simple and built to last a lifetime, they are hefty in the hand and command real presence in your ass. Find them at Good Vibrations.
Prostate Massager – The Onyx Glass Prostate Massager is a good choice and does great things for Dick. Many men are discovering they are capable of pleasures they had not imagined, browse for more choices in our store there are many good ones to choose from.
Tantus Ryder – The ideal butt plug. Size is comfortable but big enough to stay put. Material is body safe, soft (but still firm) silicone, and easy to clean. For solo use or during sex (which we recommend), the Tantus Ryder is a real butt pleaser.
Harnesses - We have a few harnesses but Jane’s current favorite is her Theo from Spare Parts Hardware. Well made, comfortable, and a solid fit, it gives her great control. And hers is pink… so it makes her feel pretty too. More harness styles available in our store.
VixSkin Dildos – Soft silicone exterior on a rigid shaft, these dildos are of unmatched quality and feel wonderful to the touch. Use them solo or in a harness for partner play and never be disappointed (review). Find them here or here.
Fun Factory Share - A great, soft silicone, double dildo which assures she gets a little something extra when she’s giving it to him. It’s designed to be worn without a harness but for best results we recommend using one. Check it out here or here.
Lelo Soraya - Excellent quality (like all things from Lelo), high end, attractive, and perfect vibrations with infinite variability. This rabbit style dildo is a real keeper that helps Jane achieve fantastic release. Catch the rabbit here or here.
Personal Shaver – One of the best things we ever bought for ourselves. We have 2; Cleancut and Body Bare, both excellent buys which help maintain an intimate shave without much effort or ill-affect like razor burn or ingrown hairs. Highly recommended!
Books – We have a stack which includes both educational and entertaining reading. A few we like are; Anal Pleasure and Health, The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure, X: The Erotic Treasury, Guide To Getting It On, and Great Sex Made Simple. You can browse for even more here.
Sex should be more than stimulating, it should be a fun shared experience… one in which you laugh and explore together. Sometimes, especially in long term relationships, investing a little effort in novelty goes a long way. If you have a special occasion planned or if your everyday encounters need extra spark, do something special and unexpected. That may be a sappy love note, a new book or toy, or test driving a new technique… it’s the effort that will win their love.
She’s done it again! Rori over at Between My Sheets has compiled a gigantic list of sex blogs, the best she found this year.
We have been on Rori’s Top 100 Sex Bloggers List in years past but it seems we keep climbing… she placed Dick-n-Jane.com at #6 for 2013. We are very honored to be a part of her annual tradition and hope you take some time to check out all her blog has to offer.
Top 10 From The Top 100 List
My husband and I have been married for 2 years and together for 6. He has always said that he has thought sex was “yucky” and that he never wants it. When we are intimate I feel like he is just going through the motions to make me happy. I am generally unable to help him achieve an erection, nor can I help him come to an orgasm. I am a psychology major working on my Bachelor’s of Science, so I understand that there are some underlying psychological issues at play here. However, he frequently More >
Best. Vibe. Ever. Frequency of vibration is adjustable from “finger tap” to “mosquito wings”. Revel Body is a personal vibrator without peer, there is nothing on the market like it. Range of frequency is Revel Body’s hallmark but we found even more things to love about this easy to use toy.What We Really Liked • Quiet, really quiet • Discreet, not phallic shaped • Comfortable to hold • Incredible vibration range Physical Description
Revel Body is tennis ball sized and More >
Hi guys, I just recently discovered your website and I love it! You two have what I’m looking for. Here’s my dilemma. I have never had an orgasm. I’ve been to doctors who told me that there is nothing wrong with me physically so it must be mental. I’ve never given myself emotionally totally to a man (I’m 50 yrs old). I’ve always been able to walk away from a relationship without much hurt. Could that be the reason? I love sex but my heart has never felt safe with a man. How can I relax and More >
One Saturday afternoon recently Jane said to me, “If you go to Starbuck’s to get me some coffee I’ll give you a blowjob”. There was only one way to answer such a proposal and it sounded a lot like a door slamming followed by a car racing away.
She got her fix. And I got mine.
I have suffered through enough corporate ethics and sexual harassment training meetings to recognize sexual “quid pro quo” when I see it… and I love it! Sure I’ll do you a favor, so long as my More >
We are very proud to welcome you to the new Dick-n-Jane.com website! It’s been quite an effort to migrate from old to new but we’re convinced the new platform will be faster and more engaging.
It may seem like we have been neglecting this blog lately… but we’ve been very busy behind the scenes creating this new site. It has taken months of moments stolen from our lives in the real world and we hope you will take a few moments to explore.
Great effort was made to keep the site familiar to More >
I have been dating my boyfriend for 18 months and we have a very strong relationship. I am more reserved and shy in public but I love having rough sex and being a little dirty in the bedroom. I want him to be rougher with me but he always seems hesitant. He says he doesn’t want to hurt me but I can tell he’s just nervous. Its hard for me to get off usually because he doesn’t need as long as I do to get ready. I also love foreplay and have tried telling him before but it just doesn’t stick. How More >
Metal Worx Double Trouble is a prostate or G-Spot massager made of high quality steel polished to a bright shine. It is solid, hefty, and comes in one of the best packages I’ve seen.What I Really Liked
• Made of steel • Generous size • Easy to handle • Versatile for him or her • Clever packagingPhysical Description
This toy is 5.5 inches in length (the insertable part) and 1.5 inches in width. It weighs 1.5 pounds and is curved to hit the right spot with definitive presence. A loop for a More >