20 Years And A Thank You! (Dick)


20thAnniversaryJane and I celebrated 20 years of marriage yesterday. Holy crap! Has it really been that long since Jane teased me in the car? We had a great day together 20 years ago and another one just yesterday. I am sharing this with you because we have this site and its readers to thank for making our 20th special. I’ll get back to that further down, but let me first tell you about our day!

Unlike our wedding day so long ago, this day started with sex. Showers first, then back to bed… I can’t think of a better way to start a day, can you? After catching our breath we walked to our neighborhood coffee shop, sat and talked like grownups without kids do, and held hands all the way home. Sappy, I know, deal with it.

Our afternoon started with two hours at a couples’ spa; hot tub, full body massage, and banja (a sauna with extras). It was intimate, relaxing, and also naked… which gets high marks in my book. We’ll go back soon, it was a great experience.

Janes Ring

Jane’s New Ring

We caught a movie together followed by dinner in a very nice restaurant. While we had our drinks I told Jane it had been a wonderful twenty years, asked her if she’d like to go for another twenty, and slid a ring box across the table. Her eyes lit up, I knew they would. Inside the box was a significant upgrade to her wedding ring along with a recommitment to her. My favorite thing to do is to make Jane happy and this really worked!

What does any of this have to do with this website or its readers (you)? Let me explain.

Dick-n-Jane.com has allowed us to take our sex lives out of the bedroom, given us a safe place to explore boundaries together with the support of our peers, and fostered adventure between the sheets. And there’s the toys, lots of [free] sex toys… also a good excuse for me to sift through porn every day, but I digress.

More than a million people visit this site each year to view in excess of five million pages. That is astounding, we are both flattered and amazed our little project draws so much interest. But it does… and that gives real monetary value to our site. We don’t make a lot from Dick-n-Jane.com but over time it adds up. We keep a special savings account dedicated to just us, the money is safe from utility bills, kids’ clothing, and our daughter’s insulin. It’s a secret and selfish stash and we spend it freely on each other without guilt.

Our “DNJ Fun$”, as we call it, financed our entire day-long anniversary celebration, including the ring! Thanks to our many readers, regular followers, and those of you who enjoy good toys, we had an exceptional day! From this day on, Jane carries on her finger a symbol of my love, a reminder of our commitment together, and a product of our sexiest indiscretions!


Now go buy something fun in our store  ;o)


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Advanced Cock Ring (Tantus)


Tantus Advanced Cock Rings

A silicone cock ring which has flex (like it’s easily squeezed into an oval shape) but very little stretch. It is made to be worn behind the balls and provides excellent retention for erectile tissue. “Advanced” refers to the size (Tantus’ smallest of this type) combined with this ring’s lack of stretch.

What We Really Liked

• Comfortable to wear • Harder, thicker erection • Delayed ejaculation • Durable and easy to clean

Physical Description

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How To Size A Rigid Cock Ring (Dick)


If you have never used a cock ring, or don’t know why someone would, we addressed related questions in our post How Do Cock Rings Work? and I can tell you from experience they are a great accessory for any man (and couple!) to own and use: A Solid Investment.

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The Pleasures Of Giving Oral Sex (Dick)


Receiving oral sex is great for many reasons which need no explanation, but what about giving oral sex? Can a person find pleasure in performing an act which, on the surface, appears to be so one sided? Yes, of course. But perhaps it is not entirely for the altruistic reasons you suspect. Let me back up to get a running start at this.

You’ve Got A Lot Of Nerve

The head of a woman’s clitoris (just the visible part) is packed with 8000 sensory nerve endings (interestingly, that’s about twice the More >


Have You Checked In Lately? (Dick)


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If you are in a long term relationship and you think you have your finger on the pulse of your partner’s desires you might want to double check your assumptions. Maybe you don’t know the whole story any longer.

Or perhaps it is you who has discovered something new about what More >

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We Have a Winner!


We are very pleased to announce the winner of our Revel Body Sonic Vibrator giveaway!

This was a fun promotion for us because we love our own Revel Body and knew that whomever took this prize home would be very happy. Orgasmically so.

If you don’t know about this unique sonic vibrator, read our review and/or read about it direct from Revel Body. Its hallmark is an impressive range of vibration, it is discreet, waterproof, and very well made.

CONGRATULATIONS to our winner selected from the many, More >


It Shouldn’t Have Worked, But It Did (Dick)


I was abruptly awoken by a PMS day. The slamming drawers, mumbled expletives, and general frustrations of Richter magnitude rattling out of our bathroom were a dead giveaway that Jane would soon be blessed again with the crimson gift of womanhood.

She’s an early bird who gets more done before I wake up in the morning than I get done all day and this day was no different. Jane had been up for some time, was dressed, and ready to take our Golden Retriever for a walk. Her aggravation crescendo had More >

Top Sex Blogger 2013

Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2013


She’s done it again! Rori over at Between My Sheets has compiled a gigantic list of sex blogs, the best she found this year.

We have been on Rori’s Top 100 Sex Bloggers List in years past but it seems we keep climbing… she placed Dick-n-Jane.com at #6 for 2013. We are very honored to be a part of her annual tradition and hope you take some time to check out all her blog has to offer.

Top 10 From The Top 100 List

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Our Recommendations, Updated!


We recently took a day off from our regular routines to spend it focused on each other (you can read about that here) which involved cracking open the sex toy vault to liberate our favorite forms of entertainment. It occurred to us that we really have a significant collection of stuff… some of which we have written about (or reviewed) but much of which we have never mentioned here.

There is so much crap on the market! We think we have sorted through enough lousy products to get both an More >

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