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Should I Invite Another Man Into Our Bed?

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Hi! My name is Alex, and I just wanted to start off saying that my wife and I are big fans of your site. You may remember my wife (Sam) asking about the use of prostate massagers. We tried one that my wife picked up at the local romance store and I liked it a little bit. I think we may have gotten a cheap one, but it seamed to big. But my question today is different. My wife and I absolutely love eachother, but we like having threesomes from time to time. I know you two are a monogamous couple, More >

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Her Kinky Past Casts A Shadow On Our Relationship

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Hi Dick and Jane, I am seeking advice regarding my girlfriend of a year, who is happy, intelligent and friendly, with loving parents. We’re in our late 30s and fell in love soon after we met, where we shared a lot about our past and what we were into sexually. When I asked her what turned her on, she said she wanted me to pee on her, and things like can I pee through an erection. I sort of laughed it off at the time, but a few months after this she told me how one of her recent ex’s used to get More >

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Caught Masturbating, Wife Objects

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Recently my wife caught me jacking off to a porn magazine and got really upset,claiming it was the same as cheating on her. Is this true? She doesn’t like for me to masturbate,so I sneak it in when I am alone at the house. We have a great sex life,but I have been beating off since I was around 12 or 13. I would like a females perspective,though any help would be appreciated!

Thanks a bunch!

– Ben G.

Mark A. Michaels and Patricia Johnson Profile | Website While we think it is unreasonable for More >
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Does Swallowing Semen Effect My Urine?

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Can swallowing semen affect a girls waste output? I had been noticing some pretty potent pee lately, but couldnt make a connection between any new foods or environmental concerns. Then I noticed a corelation between swallowing and the strong smell. A day after, bingo. Am I nuts? Signed, Swallowing

Dr. Justine Marie Shuey Profile | Website Everything you put into your body has to come out at some point. As far as swallowing is concerned I’ve never heard it could have an effect on your urine but More >
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Self Conscious About My Vulva’s Appearance

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This question simply comes from inexperience and lack of information. I have a new sex partner who is helping me open up and explore. Ive never really looked at my girly bits, but now that I’m brave enough to look at your sexy pics, I’ve wandered elsewhere and am now paranoid that my hoo-hoo looks like a pile of roast beef!! Ew!! Not nearly as sexy as what I’m seeing.

Is there any way to shape up the old girl?

– Old Lady Still Having Sex

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She Does Not Initiate and Shows No Desire

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My Wife and I have been married for 38 years, recently she had an affair.  Although difficult at times, we have managed to remain together and continue to improve our relationship and marriage. The issue is I am the one whom always initated the sex, and even though she responds, I am quite frankly tired of it. From her, it would be nice to have caress, a touch, a thank you would be great. She says that she loves me, but has no passion or spark me and does not show it, she says there is nothing More >

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Same Sex Attraction Is Marital Secret

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I am a man in a monogamous heterosexual marriage of more than a dozen years. My sexual interests have grown over time and I now find myself aroused by both men and women where I was previously only attracted to women. The idea of a romantic or emotionally intimate relationship with another man has no appeal to me, it is all about the hardware. I am curious.

My wife would be threatened by this if she knew (or a little freaked out) so I have kept it to myself. It’s not a desire she could really More >

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She Orgasms Too Quickly

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We have been married since we both were 20. One child, nice family. Since we hit our 40s, a new event is occurring. She cums too quickly, and after her orgasm, I feel that she is just patient with me until I do. She is an angel, and I love her. But should I match her tempo, or just use her as a sex doll. We are close, but this is something I know she would deny. We “date” frequently, but when shes done, shes done. – Kevin

Dr. Justine Marie Shuey Profile | Website There isn’t a simple answer to More >
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He Watches Porn and Lies About It

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So my bf watches porn ALOT. He doesn’t watch it with me and he denies that he does it. He blocks it on the computer so he doesn’t “lie” about it, but I know he does cu he has the videos downloaded. Sometimes i feel like he would rather watch porn than have sex with me. I do not have big boobs, he always complements me on my butt. He said he is a butt guy, not a boob guy however all of the porn videos he watches are “girls with big boobs” etc… The couple times we have watched it together, he More >

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I Can’t Give Her an Orgasm!

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My chinese, wife of 55 years of age, has trouble getting off except by her own fingers, my oral feels good but nothing. Vibrators, nothing! They feel good but no climax, can you think of anything to help? We spend lots of time in foreplay, kissing and sucking here and there. After she has climaxed she loves me in her which is great but I feel let down that I can’t get her to climax. – Steve

(We asked Steve some follow-up questions: Did your wife have any lovers before you? If so, did she More >

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