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What Do You Know About Ben Wa Balls?

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Have u done a product review on geisha or ben wa balls? I have read many reviews, seems lots of people have a love or not worth it review. I’m hoping to increase inner strength, thus bringing on orgasms that hard to home by! Grrr… – Jenni

Dick of Dick-n-Jane.com (layman with a website) We have not reviewed Geisha or Ben Wa balls, sorry. However… Jane has these ben wa balls, I bought them for her years ago. They are not as big as they look on the product page and are so small she cannot retain More >
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Seeking A Sex Toy Similar To A Jacuzzi Jet

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I am a 72 year-old male who has been radiated for prostate cancer. My best self generated orgasms since grade school have come from jaccuzzi and swimming pool water jets. I want to duplicate the same affect at home, without resorting to an external pump in my bath tub. Like is there a slow motion shower head massager? Slow movement is the answer, no less than two seconds per pulse. Humming devices do absolutely nothing for me. I own a Full Stroke machine; its slow motion is still too fast–its More >

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How Do Cock Rings Work?

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Jeez what a piece of hardware, your new cockring looks like it might have been a custom fit…. I found the site where you indicate you purchase your man stuff and was wondering…. I am an older guy with the unfortunate diagnosis of ED. Although Levitra and the “‘Big Blue Pill” almost, keyword ALMOST, work I have been tempted to try a cockring to enhance the rigidity…..do they work? and to what extent? is the enhancement achieved come from the psychological aspect of wearing it or strictly the More >

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Having Trouble Achieving Vaginal Orgasm

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So far in my life I’ve only been able to have a vaginal orgasm about three times from what I can count but they’ve only happened when I was masturbating. One of the things I want more than anything, to be honest like you two, is to be able to orgasm vaginally with my partner since I’ve heard with a partner it is one of life’s most beautiful experiences.

My only problem is that I’m an incredibly shy and enclosed person. I love my boyfriend more than I’ve ever loved anybody and our sex is More >

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What To Do About Kids Walking In?

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I understand you and Jane have children so being parents as my husband (Ben) and I are, I’m sure you will be able to relate. You see on more than one occassion one of our kids, mainly our youngest, has intruded on our lovemaking.

Ben and I have locked our bedroom door, but even this does not help as the continous knocking is a severe distraction. It doesnt happen every night, but when it does it is like a splash of ice cold water, just kills the mood.

Last night was one of those nights. Ben had More >

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How To Improve Quality and Duration of Sex

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Hi Dick and Jane! I have recently discovered your site and I love it. It is very educational and is helping me develop sexually. My question is about my girlfriend of 9 months. We have somewhat regular sex and it is very fun. I have always felt that I am not great at doing the deed though. I can’t last as long as I feel that I should and I feel like the pleasure I am giving her can be so much more. We recently started using toys but they don’t seem to have much affect. She tells me that I am More >

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Concerned About Penis Size

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A bit embarrassed but here goes:

I am 195 lbs, former college football player who has stayed in shape with lifting weights and running. I am also “short” where it counts (like 2.5 hard inches). Even so, I have a “fairly good” sex life. I am good at oral and using my fingers to get her off. The one position that works for me is her on top and grinding on my pubes. Anal works most of the time if I hold her tight so she doesnt lunge forward. We just want to know if there is something new you guys More >

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How Do We Best Parent A [Possibly] Gay Son?

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My wife and I have 3 kids; a 10 year old son, and 12 year old boy/girl twins. Our boys are very close but they contrast one another in some key ways; notably their demeanors, and possibly their sexual orientation. I believe it is very likely our younger son is gay.

Jane says it’s too soon, he’s too young for us to make that assessment. I’m not so sure… and that raises questions for me about how to best parent a gay son. Beyond fostering a loving and supportive home environment (which seems like More >

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How Do We Prepare For Analingus?

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I’ve just found your blog and really appreciate what you’re doing. I had a question about pleasuring my wife’s ass with my tongue. My wife enjoys having me eat her out while she’s on her elbows and knees – which provides more than perfect access to her incredibly sexy little asshole. I have played “around” it, but never really taken a deep plunge with my tongue. I’d like to experiment with it, but I’m a little afraid of the health risks associated. What are the risks and what can be done to More >

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Can You Recommend Toys For Hands-Free Prostate Play?

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Really love your site, me and my wife find alot of similarities with y’all, I would like to get some recommendations for male prostate toys to use with my wife and for solo, we’ve always just used hands and was looking for some things to use to free up her hands to be used other ways! Lol been trying to talk her into a strap on but she’s not yet comfortable with the idea of taking what she says is a masculine role (the thrusting aspect), so I was wondering what yall have found to be the best More >

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